Using a Baby To Trap A Man

We all were in love with someone before and some of us currently are. Relationships start and relationships end. When they do end it’s officially an open door for another one. Some people thought are not willing to let a relationship end. When things go rough in the relationship and the possibility of a split is more likely some people decide to either get pregnant or get their partner pregnant just because they are not willing to split and hope the baby will be a strong reason to stay together no matter the cost. I understand that we all get desperate in relationships sometimes but using a baby as a tool to keep two people who are not entirely invested in each other is just wrong. In addition this doesn’t fix the situation. In fact it makes it worse and not just for the two of you but for the child as well.

I know of a situation when this happened. In this particular case it was a girl who trapped her boyfriend when she found out he had been cheating. She got pregnant and had a bouncing baby boy. The father of this child was never really interested in this girl. He was merely fooling around and still doesn’t care about both her and her son. Now all this simply did was make him feel like she would never leave and he got public about all his other girlfriends. She knows this but she won’t leave just as he suspected. All she does is simply does is try to ascertain her position as his girlfriend by doing whatever he wants. She pays for all the household bills and buys him a lot of alcohol in addition to the expensive birthday gifts. She has become his slave completely just because she loves him. Plus he even has his own money which he only spends on himself and for things that matter. All his play money comes from her. Her spending on him also affects the baby as she can no longer afford to buy this child everything he needs. After spending hundreds and probably more on him the baby (almost a year old now) still has 1 pair of socks, 1 baby suit and a blanket. The baby recently got an infection on the butt because he would wear an entire diaper a day whether its full not and no baby powder was being bought for him too. Even after all this she still doesn’t buy the child what he needs. And he doesn’t care still. He wasn’t even present at the hospital for his child. All because she enslaved herself to this guy. Imagine how different the situation would have been if she hadn’t tried to trap him.

I plead with you all. Do not force relationships. And not like this. It affects more than just you. This child deserves more than this. Do not allow yourself to fall into this situation. Instead of trapping him you may end up trapping yourself and failing your child.

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