Love: How does it feel?

The feeling of love is one of the subtlest ones we experience. Everyone wishes to have this feeling as the final stage of the search for the right one. At this point it becomes your forever. Love does not exist alone. Love is always entangled in a web of so many feelings. These include happiness, jealousy, excitement and in addition to these cliché feelings it fits with not so good emotions too including anger and hatred. We only feel in love when situations are lighthearted and good and decide we do not love this person when it turns bad. Love shows itself through the emotional balance you feel when you are with someone. It is wrong to feel that whoever you are with should not and cannot rub you the wrong way sometimes. If things were this way, so one sided and always good, life becomes monotonous and incomplete. In love you argue and piss each other off then make up and get happy together again. Maintaining the balance of emotions is what makes love so complicated and altogether beautiful. Despite this though excess in anything is never good. Fighting all the time can never be a good sign.

Like I mentioned earlier we all want to be in love.  Just this point alone has devalued love itself. We want it so much we end up saying this to just about anyone we are with to the expense of our understanding of love. Furthermore when we get into relationships we feel so happy with someone so much we think we are in love and tell them this. If they don’t respond the same way we get angry and frustrate and try to persuade them that they love. That is how you lose love as when they give in just to make you happy and say they love you too it becomes enough. It just becomes an exchange of words and that’s it. That is why true love is becoming such a rare luxury. Getting in a relationship is much easier than getting into a relationship with the right person. Find yourself someone who balances you out just as much as you do for them.