Dissecting Name-calling Towards Women

The number of things women have been called over the years are plenty. The reasons for such are just as many yet none are reasonable. It also has to to be said that this does not happen to every woman. Usually it is the type of woman with an air of mystery and a superiority complex. She is all about her business and getting things done. Here is a list of the most probable reasons for this.

1. They are attracted to you. This is a grown up version of the childish "giving whoever you are interested in a hard time".People have a hard time being open about their feelings for someone. Problem is everyone can see the interest they have for you and they are aware of this. These individuals are afraid of somebody asking for reasons why a relationship hasn't sprouted. Therefore they wear a mask and attempt to show people that they aren't interested in you by any means. They begin to say whatever nonsense that comes to their mind as long as it pushes their far from impressive agenda. All this just because they are insecure and cannot bring themselves to ask you. In the case whereby they had previously tried to get into a relationship with you only to be rejected, this rejection in addition to their insecurities fuels their actions. There is also a scenario where they were for sometime in a relationship with you but you ran out of love with them and dumped them. They may not be completely over you. The embarrassment of being let go coupled with insecurity become the cause of problem. All this because of their personal insecurities.
2. They want to be associated with you.People without any plans in life and aren't committed to anything the way you are, find you intriguing. They want to be with you. Usually just as friends. Issues start when your being a focused wish to to be associated with people just as focused and ambitious as you are and consequently dissociate yourself from them. They become frustrated with you and as a result of this they throw dirt on your name. These people are annoyed at the fact that they cannot find a way to befriend you and you aren't even interested. A weird fact regarding this is that if you were to attempt befriending them despite all they would have said about you, they would welcome you with open arms. This is how you get to see their minds.
3. They are jealous of you. As a resourceful person who is focused and plans your things, having you fail is a rare sight. This annoys others to the core as they are not as successful in their own dealings as you are in yours.
4. They feel overshadowed by you. Some people are used  to being the center of all attention but your presence draws all the attention to yourself without even intending to. This is very much related to the above stated idea of jealousy. The only way they can ever get as much attention as you if not more is by bringing you down and how else than to fabricate stories about you.
5. Some people just don't like you. That's alright. Nobody is in good books with everyone.  The fact that people have different opinions about you simply means that you know who you are and that you are not bending to anyone's tune. You are real.

My advice to you is that you do not change yourself. Keep focusing on yourself and your success and then they'll see just how far they can go with their envy and constant bashing of your name. Your success and their slow progress if any will be an awakening to how much time they wasted focusing on you and criticizing everything you do. Grow and Shine.

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