7 Signs your partner is cheating

We all get suspicious of our partners sometimes. It is not every time thought that our suspicions are correct. Despite all that I’m going to be discussing the signs that your partner may be cheating on you…just for those special cases. Be advised that one of these signs alone may not be enough to identify a cheater. Sometimes it is as it seems. Just innocent acts … sometimes.  Let get right in to it then.

1.       They do not spend as much time with you as they used to. Every time it’s an excuse for why they are unable to come visit you or why you can’t visit them. Your partner may be trying to prevent a situation whereby you meet the other person they are involved with. Keeping you at arm’s length is the best way to avoid this. Also sometimes they may not be enjoying your company as much as they enjoy the other person.

2.       Unexplained use of money (mainly for married couples). Relationships just like most of the things in this world require money. That’s how you keep things interesting, especially with those ones on the side. If money starts failing to add up despite full knowledge of income then something is going on.

3.       Reduced sex. This mainly applies to men.  If you used to have sex spontaneously before or sometimes after work this may be easy to spot. Your man now comes home too tired to enjoy you.  It’s most likely that he is having an affair at work or he goes to visit someone after work and does it with them instead of you. By the time he comes home he is worn out and might not even be able to get an erection as he is on his refractory period. With women this is difficult as women can come home and can still do it with you.

4.       They come home after work bathed and without a whiff of sweat. Let me put this straight. They would have had sex with someone and had a shower before coming home to you. This point together with the previous work hand in hand and both together are a cause for concern.

5.       Unexpected calls at odd times. This is usually during the early morning hours after midnight. Nobody calls at such times and if this happens you have every right to question. Especially when this is a frequently occurring thing.

6.       Coming home or going out at odd hours. This is a pretty common behavior with cheaters and more common  is the number of excuses they give for these behaviors.

7.       Too many excuses. I just had to put this as a separate point as it is one of the obvious. My advice is if something always needs explaining then someone is hiding something.

These are the most common signs of a cheater. Before you put this to use, you are going to need to understand that these signs “may” be true. They are not a rigid set of guidelines as some people may be doing some of these things in innocence.