All of us want to be perfect, we want to be flawless. To be fair i can't help but feel that perfection in relation to human beings and who they are is non-existent. Human beings are complicated beings and that's the beauty about us. Our world has gotten lost regarding this idea especially in the world of vanity. People look at themselves and feel that they are not beautiful or handsome because they have a slightly larger nose, or big eyes, or a double chin. To be fair who is perfect? I mean all those features are different on everyone. What is the measuring stick? Who is the Judge? Nobody is exactly the same. Even "identical twins" are distinguishable. Now who is perfect. The way you look is unique and someone will hate it and someone will love it and that's the same for everyone else. Just accept yourself as you are. Don't be upset about looks as you are not in control of how you look...Unless you get surgery. In my opinion Surgery does not make you any better and still some will like how you look and some still won't be impressed. Anyway that's just my opinion.
Regarding character many of the above mentioned views apply here too. I'd like to dive into the mistakes people make. We often cry after making mistakes. After making them some people tend to start trying to be good. Everything they do is always an effort to be good and again in my opinion this makes everything worse. You make the most mistakes while trying to be good. Just accept those flaws of yours and be yourself. I am not saying you shouldn't learn from your mistakes. Just don't beat yourself trying to do things unnatural to you. Accept yourself not love yourself. Accept yourself but detest the mistakes. We all have them. Don't be afraid to make mistakes. Let them remain mistakes as the word itself professes the lack of intention.You will be happier that way.
Regarding character many of the above mentioned views apply here too. I'd like to dive into the mistakes people make. We often cry after making mistakes. After making them some people tend to start trying to be good. Everything they do is always an effort to be good and again in my opinion this makes everything worse. You make the most mistakes while trying to be good. Just accept those flaws of yours and be yourself. I am not saying you shouldn't learn from your mistakes. Just don't beat yourself trying to do things unnatural to you. Accept yourself not love yourself. Accept yourself but detest the mistakes. We all have them. Don't be afraid to make mistakes. Let them remain mistakes as the word itself professes the lack of intention.You will be happier that way.
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